Wendell and Sharon Hamilton, originally from the Kansas City area, currently live in Independence, MO. Sharon is considered a teacher/preacher of the gospel, life coach, marriage mentor, and Wendell works in transportation/ministry.
They were married Aug. 14, 1982. They are the proud parents of 5 children (1 deceased), 16 grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren.
How did you meet? Sharon: We met after giving my life to the Lord at the church my husband was attending. Wendell: At a church fellowship.
Tell us about your first date. Sharon: Top of the Towers – more dessert than dinner. Wendell: It was a couple’s date. We went out to dinner and then home.
How did you know he/she was the one? Sharon: The Lord revealed it during prayer. Wendell: The Holy Spirit told me so.
Tell us a few memorable parts of the wedding. Sharon: One unforgettable – the groom was late hanging out with my dad & best man (brother) smh. Wendell: We started late and I was filled with excitement of becoming a husband.
Who’s more social? Sharon: We both can be pretty social at times. He will probably say me. Wendell: Sharon.
Who’s the neat freak? Sharon: Wendell more than me because he’s very meticulous. Wendell: Sharon. She believes everything must be in order.
What chore does your spouse hate doing the most? Sharon: I’ll have to say mowing the lawn. Wendell: Dishes
Who does the cooking? Sharon: I do the cooking seeing I’m at home more and he still works a 9-5.
Where is your favorite weekend destination? Sharon: I enjoy Ozark weekends –a beautiful relaxing place not too far from home. Wendell: Hawaii.
Who tends to be more romantic? Sharon: I’d say Wendell he’s a man lol! He tends to be more sensitive. Wendell: Sharon, because she is always thinking of me and my needs.
Who’s better at gifting? Sharon: Wendell – He gives more thought. Wendell: Sharon. It is a gift of hers to personalize the gifts that she gives.
What have you learned to appreciate about your spouse? Sharon: I’ve learned to appreciate how patient Wendell is. Wendell: Her intelligence. She is a true learner and loves to learn.
What kind of movies do you like watching together? Sharon: Hallmark and Pure Flix. Wendell: Pure Flix, clean family movies.
What song is on each of your romantic playlist? Sharon: “You Are So Beautiful to Me.”
What is your favorite couple song? Sharon: “To God be the Glory.” Wendell: “I Won’t Complain.”
Words of wisdom from both of you for other couples.
Sharon: There are 3 types of love essential for a happy marriage
- Friendship Love – makes marriage enjoyable
- Commitment Love – makes lasting marriages
- Romance Love – keeps marriage sweet
Finally, communication is key. Never assume – because assumption is the lowest form of communication. Your spouse is not a mind-reader. Wendell: Marriage is made up of communication, which is assertiveness and active listening.
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