Marsha Keene-Frye grew up around guns, going hunting with her family from a young age near her home in Mississippi County.
To this day, she still regularly carries a firearm and considers herself a supporter of the Second Amendment, just like most of her neighbors in southeastern Missouri.
But for 27 years, Keene-Frye has worked at Susanna Wesley Family Learning Center, which offers domestic violence services in Mississippi County. Sheโs seen how guns have aided perpetrators in terrorizing and even killing their spouses and children.
โWe have had people who have physically been beaten to death,โ said Keene-Frye, who is now the centerโs CEO, โbut that is rarer than when someone uses a firearm. Thereโs typically a deadly outcome.โ
Missouri ranked second in the nation, behind Alaska, in the number of women killed by men, according to a national study that analyses 2018 homicide data. Among the Missouri women who were murdered by their intimate partners, 80 percent were killed with guns.
Keene-Frye can attest to the real nature of these statistics on the ground, and sheโs adamant that state legislators must pass a law that would take guns out of the hands of convicted domestic-violence perpetrators โ mirroring federal law.
Three legislators โ Democratic Sens. Lauren Arthur and John Rizzo and Republican state Rep. Ron Hicks โ have filed bills that would answer Keene-Fryeโs call to amend the law.
Advocates like Keene-Frye, and even law enforcement officials, say these proposals are even more crucial now, following the passage of the Second Amendment Preservation Act (SAPA) last May.
The act, which went into effect in August, made it illegal for law enforcement officers in Missouri to enforce certain federal gun laws โ among them is the federal law that prevents convicted domestic violence abusers from having guns.
Hicks, R-Defiance, voted for the Second Amendment Preservation Act, and he still supports it. But he also believes that it left the stateโs most vulnerable residents unprotected, and legislators have a responsibility to fix it.
โThis seems like a very simple piece of legislation to help protect all men and women and children in the state of Missouri,โ Hicks said, โand at the same time still protect our Second Amendment rights.โ
While the legislation has bipartisan support, both Hicks and Arthur agree it still faces a hefty challenge this session. Itโs an election year, they said, and Republican candidates fear that backing any restriction on gun ownership could hurt them in a primary.
โIt says something very dark about our politics,โ said Arthur, D-Kansas City, โthat they would rather be on record protecting the rights of convicted domestic abusers, rather than the rights of survivors of domestic abuse.โ
โRed flag lawโ
The proposals have three main parts.
They would allow courts to prohibit a person under a restraining order from having or buying a gun while the order is in effect. They would require the courts to inform the Missouri State Highway Patrol and the FBI when a person is convicted of domestic assault. And, they would make it a crime for anyone who has been convicted of domestic violence to possess or own a firearm.
Those convicted of domestic abuse in Missouri have not always been allowed to carry firearms, Hicks said, nor did legislators intend that to be the case.
When Missouri lawmakers voted to override then-Gov. Jay Nixonโs veto of a 2016 bill legalizing concealed carry without a permit, both Republicans and Democrats were aware that it would unintentionally make it more difficult to enforce the federal law that prevents domestic abusers from having guns, Arthur said.
That was because the legislation removed required criminal background checks and gun safety training classes โ the time when these offenders would be screened.
โBut in typical legislative fashion, the majority party wanted to push forward, and made a promise that we would return to the legislation to fix it,โ Arthur said.
Hicks was among the Republicans who vowed in 2016 to come back and fix it.
โItโs 2022 now,โ Hicks said. โIโm still sitting here trying to fix it. Iโm actually keeping a promise.โ
Itโs Hicksโ final year in the House due to term limits, and he said closing the loophole is his top priority.
In May, Arthur attempted to add an amendment that mirrors her current bill to the Second Amendment Preservation Act. State Sen. Eric Burlison, R-Battlefield, who was handling the bill on the floor, said it was one issue he believed Republicans and Democrats could โcome together on.โ
โIf that person has been convicted and we know that they arenโt responsible with their emotions, and with their actions towards people in their family,โ Burlison said, โthen having a gun in that situation, youโre absolutely right, it adds to the intimidation, and it adds to lethality of the situation.โ
However, Sen. Bob Onder, R-Lake St. Louis, decried Arthurโs amendment during the 2021 debate as a โred flag law,โ which allows family members, law enforcement or other third parties to ask a court to temporarily remove a personโs guns if theyโre concerned about the individual.
Hicks, whose district area overlaps with Onderโs, sponsored the same language as Arthurโs amendment in his House bill last session โ and he strongly disagreed with Onder.
โI had a letter from the NRA last year stating this is not a red flag bill,โ Hicks said of the National Rifle Association. โIf it was a red flag law, they wouldโve rated it. I would no longer be holding an A-plus rating from the NRA.โ
Onderโs concerns related to judges prohibiting a person from having guns during restraining-order proceedings. Arthur told Onder that these hearings were a crucial moment in protecting victims because thatโs when the conflicts are at their โhottestโ and most dangerous points. Hicks said the legislation gives a judge the opportunity to be able to protect residents in these dire moments.
โIf youโre sitting in a courtroom and youโve got your spouse or significant other sitting over there, youโve already gone to the end,โ Hicks said. โYou canโt take any more. And I think itโs up to us then to help them.โ
Hicks said the NRA assured him that this would not fall in the same category as the type of court orders that Onder is concerned about. Ultimately, Arthurโs amendment was voted down by the Senate, which went on to approve the Second Amendment Preservation Act.
Now law enforcement officers canโt enforce federal law to prevent convicted domestic violence abusers โ whether it be a felony or misdemeanor charge โ from having guns. Missouri law prohibits felons from possessing guns, but Arthur noted that a lot of the crimes that are classified as domestic violence misdemeanors are still violent crimes.
โIn any other context, if it wasnโt a domestic partnership, it would be qualified as a felony,โ Arthur said. โI think that speaks to societyโs attitude about domestic violence.โ
Rural Missouri advocates
In southern Missouri, families often live miles apart, and that isolation factor makes addressing domestic violence challenging, said Tressa Price, executive director of the Agape House, a domestic violence shelter in Mountain View.
Some of the families that Agape serves only have one car or one phone, and theyโre usually in the abuserโs control, she said.
โGetting help is hard enough,โ said Price, who is a gun owner herself. โBut then if they have a gun, they can hold them at gunpoint, they can threaten them with that gun, [and] they can use that gun. We have seen too much of that go on down in this area โ with too many people murdered.โ
Price spoke about several cases of women who were shot and killed by their husbands or partners. A woman murdered at a McDonaldโs. Another who tried to run away, but her male partner captured her at the Walmart parking lot and killed her. Another shot in front of her children in her trailer home. The grief impacts the entire community because, in small towns, everyone knows these women and families well, Price said.
โThis is the kind of stuff we see in rural Missouri,โ she said. โAs long as they still have a firearm in their hand, theyโre still free to do what they want to do. They still stalk. They still terrorize. But if thereโs no law against it, it cannot be prosecuted.โ
Just as in the Mountain View area, guns are very much part of the culture in Mississippi County, said Keene-Frye. Advocates of domestic violence tend to be able to get bipartisan support on most reforms, she said, except when it involves guns.
The typical arguments that Keene-Frye hears against this proposal is that people need their guns to provide food for their families through hunting, or that judges shouldnโt be able to grant protection orders without having a full hearing.
โWhen somebody has an order of protection granted against them, a judge has decided that someone needs protection from this individual for a reason, based on facts,โ she said. โSo I just really do not understand the controversy surrounding that.โ
Mississippi County has a population of about 13,000, and the Susanna Wesley Family Learning Center serves about 400 women a year, she said. They provide 1,200 to 1,800 of โbed nightsโ to victims every year at the shelter.
As a lifelong gun owner, Keene-Frye said that most responsible gun owners believe that abusers shouldnโt possess guns. But her area has become increasingly โultra conservativeโ over the last few years, she said, and itโs made this point more contentious.
โIs the victimโs right to life not greater than the perpetratorโs right to a firearm?โ she said. โI believe it is.โ

