Bishop Herman & Anadina Hicks
Bishop Herman and Anadina Hicks are the senior pastor and first lady at Greater Pentecostal Church of God in Christ in Wichita. He’s originally from Greenville, MS, and she’s from Wichita Falls, TX, where the couple met in 1986 at a church banquet. They married a year later, in 1987. They live in Derby, KS, a Wichita suburb, and have four children and one grandson.
How did you meet?
Herman was stationed at Sheppard Air Force Base when he saw Anadina at that church banquet and he was smitten.
Herman – She was wearing a blue dress … and fine. “When I saw her leaving the banquet, I ran to the door to open it for her just so I could say ‘hello.’” That was all he said. but for the next two weeks he went to her job during his lunch break just to watch her through the window. “I didn’t realize that was called ‘stalking.’” Eventually they met at church, he got her phone number from her sister and the rest is history.
How was your first date?
He allowed her to pick the restaurant and said she chose a pizza place because she wasn’t sure what kind of guy he was.
The Turn – how did you know he/she was the one?
Herman – I knew when I saw her at the banquet that I wanted her. She was one of the most beautiful women I had ever seen. I was hooked!
Anadina – I knew he was the one because of his love for God.
What were a few memorable parts of the wedding?
Their wedding was on a military base, and Herman wore his military uniform, as did all his groomsmen. “We had individuals from the Air Force, Army, Navy, and Marines in our wedding.”
Who’s the neat freak?
“My husband. He is a perfectionist.”
Who does the cooking?
Anadina is an amazing cook and she loves to try new dishes.
Who tends to be more romantic?
Anadina wins this one. “She is just that kind of lady.” But Herman says he comes up with his share of great romantic ideas.
Who’s better at gifting?
Herman gives the best gifts.
What have you learned to appreciate about your wife/husband that you didn’t know when you were first married?
Herman – She is very gifted in many ways, and she knows how to pray. Every man needs a praying woman.
Anadina – I appreciate how smart, gifted and anointed my husband is.
Words of wisdom for other couples?
Fast, pray, read your Bible, and be considerate of one another. Don’t forget the family prayer. Pray as a family and pray together as a couple.
What song is on your romantic playlist?
“You Are So Beautiful”
Garvin & Dr. Teresa Marshall
Garvin and Dr. Teresa Pouncil Marshall, Lee’s Summit residents, have been married since 1995. Garvin is a wellness coordinator on a data team with Quest Diagnostics. Teresa is a family physician and shareholder and physician leader at her location with Encompass Medical Group. Garvin was raised in Wichita, while Teresa is a Kansas City, KS, native. They have three lovely daughters who are still at home pursuing their post-high school education.
How did you meet?
They met in 1995 on a blind date set up by a mutual friend. (Shout out for the hookups, the second in this year’s group.) They were married a year later, in 1996. (Shout out for knowing what you want, one of several quick to the altar relationships in this year’s group.)
Tell us about your first date
They had dinner at Plaza III restaurant on the Country Club Plaza.
The Turn – How did you know he/she was the one?
Garvin – It was love at first sight. After we spoke on the phone and agreed to go out, I knew we could be friends but when I saw her for the first time, I knew immediately that I wanted to marry her.
Teresa – It was the fact that we were compatible. We could have stimulating conversations on all types of topics and both were down to earth and willing to have fun. We both had a love for Christ and a desire to raise a family.
What were a few memorable parts of the wedding?
Garvin, who grew up singing in church, sang “In You” by Glen Jones to his bride after she walked down the aisle. The song had been on a slow jams tape made by her brother. They enjoyed dancing to it while they were dating.
Who tends to be more romantic?
Teresa because she works hard to know Garvin’s love language (quality time and physical touch) and try to make sure he feels loved and appreciated at all times. Teresa’s love language is acts of service. (Another reference to “The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman; might be worth reading!)
What have you learned to appreciate about your wife/husband that you didn’t know when you were first married?
Garvin – She is a real follower of Christ by actions not just words and is very beautiful inside and out.
Teresa – That he is loyal and devoted. He is a true gentleman that is serious about leading his household according to God’s will. He will do anything for me, our daughters and my mother (our only living parent). He may be a little grumpy, but that doesn’t mean he won’t be there.
Words of wisdom for other couples?
Always be willing to compromise and be willing to admit when you are wrong.
What song is on your romantic playlist?
“Always and Forever” – Luther Vandross remake.
